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UGH!!! Sometimes I want to pull my hair out dealing with these idiots

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We paid for a private SLP to give testing to our son, including a CELF and TAPS test.  She concluded that Matthew has issues with "formulating sentences" and "expressive language skills". We had a meeting today with our son's school "team", and they already had the private SLP's information.  Since these conditions are not "adversely affecting his performance in school", I have a feeling that they will say they don't feel he needs additional testing and/or therapy.  That just means we'll have to pull him out of school for private SLP sessions.  I really don't want to do that, but our first priority is getting him the skills he needs to adapt with this condition and learn how to work with it.  It's important to us that he learns coping skills to work with his issues before he begins high school.  By then, most of his work will be getting more difficult and he won't have as much time to ask questions or get details like he can right now.  I made it known that if he has to get outside therapy, I will be pulling him out of school for it, whether they like it or not.  If they give me a hassle about it, I'll straight out say "it's either my way, or I pull him out of your school completely and homeschool him, which do you want?"

Being a mom...sometimes it's wonderful, and sometimes you wanna strangle people.


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Re: UGH!!! Sometimes I want to pull my hair out dealing with these idiots

Diana, I totally hear your frustration. The schools have all kinds of ways to get out of providing services.

Although perhaps you could challenge their saying it does not effect his schoolwork. If he has trouble formulating sentences, how well can he answer questions in class? Also, if he struggles to talk, is he asking for help when he needs it.

It's hard to get the teacher on your side, but you might have a conversation with him/her to see how well your son is really doing in school. Our son they tried to tell us was doing fine, but after we hired a lawyer they capitulated and admitted he needed more assistance, and that's when he got an aide. Sometimes you have to bring in the big guns.

And if you have to go private, damn them if they say you can't pull him out of school. Academics won't help him down the line if he can't talk to people!!

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Bonnie


Mom of 2 boys: James (6 & CAPD) and Michael (3)

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You know me by now Bonnie, if they told me I couldn't pull him out of school, I'd take it the whole way to the School Board.  If they still said no, I'd tell them "either you give me this time for outside therapy, or I"ll pull him out of school altogether and homeschool him".  Either way, I'll get what he needs!


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The homeschooling card might be the trick. I know in our district they are desperate to keep the students since they get paid by the student. When we tried to move to a different school in the district, that's when the current principal suddenly started being really nice and wanting to do whatever to keep us at the home school.

I know you'll work it out. You're just like me -- do whatever it takes!

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Bonnie


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Now I get a set of papers today from the school saying they want to do "assessments".  First listed is "Intellectual/Congnitive Functioning" being done by the school's Psychologist.  I liked her at our meeting, she was going to go into one of his classes and see how he interacts.  I suggested that she go into the math class, where he has the most problems, to observe him there.  Second is the "Academic Performance", for determining his academic performance in "math, reading, spelling, or written expression" using review of records and classroom observation.  This will be done by the Special Education Teacher.  She's OK, weirdly I got neutral vibes from her.  Last will be the "Communication" part, which they say they will access "how well your child understand and uses pragmatic language, we may use the following tests and/or procedures: various subtests of the Comprehensive Assessment of Spoken Language (CASL). This is being done by the person I like the LEAST, the school's SLP.  I got negative vibes from her when we first met, and I got many criticisms from her at this meeting.  I don't like her...and she already knows we'll do outside therapy no matter what they find (or don't find).

What is the CASL?  What does it test for, and what are they looking for? 


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