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Hi, I'm new on this board, and would just love to say how THRILLED I am to find a support group for Auditory Processing (FINALLY!).  My 10 year old son is a 5th grader at a very good elementary school in Atlanta.  After struggling through several years of mediocre grades and report card comments such as "lacks focus", "doesn't participate", "lazy", "has trouble grasping the subject matter", "disorganized" etc., we finally got the school involved.  Long story short, we wasted a lot of time sitting in meetings with no guidance toward where to go or what to do.  There seems to only be one pathway, and that is to call it ADHD.  After a consult with his physician (who was SHOCKED that I hadn't already set up a ritilin assessment appointment with him), I knew there had to be something else going on.  He actually told me that I'd waste a lot of time & money on testing when we could be solving the problem right away with medication. 

We now have a new pediatrian.

We finally had a full battery of tests performed and discovered it was Auditory Processing (with working memory defecits) and dysgraphia (difficulty performing handwriting neatly).  Despite getting an IEP in 4th grade, the accommodations were lacking, and the support we received in the co-teaching situation was, lets just say, disinterested.  They decided that he was just lazy.  After spending the summer educating myself on everything I could find on CAPD (which is precious little), I realized that I needed to become his biggest advocate ever.  I'm very happy with the co-teaching arrangement this year, and have gone to great lengths to make them understand the world that he lives in.  Just yesterday, we had our 4th meeting of the school year to continue to tweak strategies and IEP goals.  I plan to touch base with his teachers approx every 2 weeks just for an update.   I've also made it very clear that bullying tactics not only do not help the situation, but are creating a self-esteem problem that makes it impossible for the child to succeed. 

I just finished reading the book "Don't you Get It?" and found it to be energizing.  I'd love to hear other people's experiences, and how to approach this subject when the school becomes skeptical.  I'm especially interested in any classroom accommodations and strategies that work for other people, and looking for ideas to help teachers, students, and parents guide their child toward self-advocacy.   

Thanks for a great site!
Laurie



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Welcome Inyego!  Most of us have had problems getting our kids diagnosed one way or another.  I didn't get our son's real diagnosis until just a few months ago.  If it wasn't for a homeschooling Yahoo group, I may not have gotten it done at all!  Our son had been behind in lots of things from the time he was born, mostly speech related.  People kept saying he would grow out of it, or it's just him being a kid.  I knew better.  "Truckskins" was a word we never could figure out, until we went past a construction site and he yelled out "TRUCKSKINS".  He was saying Construction, and that's how he heard the word and repeated it.  When he was in first grade, we moved from one school district to another, and he started to stutter and repeat phrases in his sentences (I want... I want to go... I want to go to the store).  He was then diagnosed with cluttering, a speech related condition.  Even after he was treated for it, I knew that wasn't the only problem.  Thank heavens for that speech pathologist in the homeschool group, she was asking if anyone needed advice on their kids.  At that point, I was ready to pull him out of the public school system and homeschool him.  She's the one that told me about CAPD, and how to test for it.  I"ll be forever greatful to her. 

Have you read "When The Brain Can't Hear" by Teri James Bellis yet?  It's a wonderful book, I highly recommend it.  It's chock full of CAPD info.  Did you know that kids with this can have problems with note taking?  Dividing their attention between hearing, understanding and writing is tough for CAPD kids.  I never knew that!  We had accomodations made for just that issue. 

Scour the information in the site, there are wonderful resources in the "resource" page, and other information that may be useful to you.  Feel free to share your journey in the CAPD world, it's so relieving to know someone else is going through what we are, and can understand my frustration, anger, and sadness.  Hope we see lots of you!


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Thanks Diana,

This is really a great website, and I'm so greatful to the webmaster for creating a central repository for CAPD info.  And, for parents like you who help by sharing your stories.  Its nice to have a place to go where people understand the struggle that parents have faced with this diagnosis.  I have the book that you mentioned on my list & will definitely read it soon. 

CAPD is tough...it affects so many aspects of education, yet its so often misdiagnosed.  It turns out that just about everything that we've done over the last couple of years didn't really work in the long run, and now we have to switch gears and try new things.  Because no one really understood the disorder, and my son's approach to his schoolwork, often times they ended up punishing him for basically living up to his diagnosis. 

In fact, we discussed note-taking just yesterday.  Because of my son's dysgraphia, he does all of his writing on a laptop (which works great!).  But, its a problem for note-taking in math class (switching back and forth between the laptop and his math journal).  His teacher will give him a photocopy of a peer's notes (someone who's making an "A" in math, I hope) to put in his math journal. 

I'm very fortunate to finally have a teacher who understands what it is, and how we can help him bridge his issues without creating too much dependance.  She's really great.  We've accomplished more in the last 10 weeks, then we have in the last 3 years!

I'm glad to meet you & hope that we can share ideas to help our kids reach their full potential!

Take Care,   Laurie


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Hi

APDUK, the organisation I help run have an "Ideas to be Considered Prior to Creating an IEP for an APD" web page at
http://resources.apduk.org/iep_page.htm
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http://www.infosheets.apduk.org/iep_page.htm (if you have visual processing problems or visual stress)

I hope this helps

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I used that sheet when we went to our son's IEP meeting.  We ended up getting a 504 instead, it lasts much longer and works differently than the IEP.  Since we know there's no "cure" for his CAPD, an IEP is pointless for us. 



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Diana, could you help me understand how a 504 and an IEP work differently, and how an IEP is pointless for you?  Our kids probably present differently, and require different accommodations, but I think I need to see a bigger picture.  I've read a little bit about the differences and really don't understand them.  Thanks!  Laurie


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Sure thing Laurie.  The way it was described to us, an IEP is a plan geared toward a "goal", and ends with that goal being met.  A 504 is a set of guidelines the teachers have to follow in order to deal with the student, with no particular "goal" in mind other than to help.  It follows the "Americans With Disabilities Act" in that these guidelines are meant to be followed for a long as they need to be.  The IEP is a set of expectations/strategies/timelines that are meant to make a certain amount of progress to the set "goal".  Since CAPD really has no cure, and there's not much that can be done specifically to improve the symptoms. Therapies can help, but depending on the child, the progress varies.  The 504 will follow the child throughout their school years, an IEP is specifically made to end at some point.  That's my understanding, but you can ask your school's guidance counselor or principal for their definitions.

Glad I can clarify this for you.  Why do they have to make this process so confusing anyway?



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This where the differences come in the different education systems come in, between countries like UK and the USA and as I understand it between states in the USA.
The best information regarding the USA is best found on the following forums
AuditoryProcessing
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AuditoryProcessing/
capdinvirginia
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/capdinvirginia/
USA_APD
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/USA_APD/
and there is also and IEP forum at yahoo as well
you could also have a look at the archives of
CAPD@LISTSERV.ICORS.ORG
http://listserv.icors.org/SCRIPTS/WA-ICORS.EXE?A0=CAPD

I hope this helps

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Thank you Diana - you gave a very clear description of the differences between 504 and IEP.  I swear, the more I learn, the more I realize how much I didn't know about the education system.  We have an IEP, but now I'm not so sure that is the correct pathway for us.  I will have to speak to the school about this.

Thanks to Dolfrog's IEP sheet, I can now give his teachers a reference tool to help understand my son's world. It seems that whenever someone doesn't truely understand APD, they use phrases like:  He's zoning out, he doesn't know his multiplication tables, He's not organized, or He's not following directions.  This sheet should help educate the educators on what is really going on.

I'm especially concerned about math this year....he's progressing toward his goals, but his grades are still terrible.  (sort of an oxymoron if you ask me).  Does anyone have any ideas about how to deal with the complexities of math - especially word problems?  I'm thinking that he still needs more accommodations in that area.

Thanks - Laurie


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Laurie, he needs extra time and attention with anything that he doesn't understand.  Is there an afterschool program that'll give him one on one time with a teacher than can help him?  Ask his math teacher about it, and tell him/her he needs extra instructions on certain issues.  If this is in an IEP or 504, I think you can bring this up to the principal and get it done whether the math teacher offers it or not.  If your son is having problems, get it addressed, and don't take no for an answer.  Go over his IEP information again, and get the speech language pathologist involved.  Have her look it over, and tell her what his issues are.  Make the school work for you!!!


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Diana - you've inspired me!   My suspicion is that he probably understands the subject matter reasonably well, but has trouble interpreting/processing/solving the problem during testing. Maybe a change in test format?? I've got a call in to the SLP, and an e-mail to the teacher asking for clarification. It would be helpful to figure out the point where the breakdown begins. 

It unbelieveable to me that this life-impacting disorder receives so little attention from our medical and educational communities!

Take care,   Laurie


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He needs more individual attention, even if it means he gets taken to a different room for tests.  The school needs to investigate and find out what the problem for him is.  That's their job, and you need to push them to do it.  My son has issues with auditory memory and "dichotic listening", so it was suggested that he wear earplugs or go to a different room for his tests.  So far, he hasn't needed to, but if it becomes a problem we'll have it done.  We're asking him very pointed questions about his school experience to make sure he's got the best learning environment possible. 

If I had the power of the President, I'd be making it mandatory that all kids have yearly screenings for things like this.  There's no reason why if we spend billions of dollars going to war (we'll never see that money come back!) we can't spent half that much testing our kids for learning problems.  EVERY YEAR, not just when there's a problem.



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Hi Laurie

you wrote

inyego wrote:

My suspicion is that he probably understands the subject matter reasonably well, but has trouble interpreting/processing/solving the problem during testing
This typical of an APD, well typical of me as well. This what causes those who have APD to be dyslexic, or have problems using our cultures chosen writing system.

APD is about having problems processing what we hear, which includes speech, which in turn means we have problems following conversations, and verbal instructions.
Having problems processing speech is bad enough but then we have to cope with the visual notation of speech, or writing system, to process as well.
APDs have to best guess the bits of information they do not process by trying to make sense of the bits of information that they do process. And like with all guesses we can sometimes be terribly wrong.

Many who have APD are either natural visual learners or become visual leaners to work around their auditory deficits. This why we have included a learning style section to the APDUK web site.
You may be interested in looking at the following web pages.
The Power of Visual Thinking
http://www.learningstyles.apduk.org/powerofvt1.htm (1 of 2 web pages)
Teaching Reading to Visual-Spatial Learners
http://www.learningstyles.apduk.org/vslteachread.htm
(the maths one) Show Your Working When There is Nothing to Show
http://www.learningstyles.apduk.org/vslshowworking.htm
Visual Spatial Children: Learning Disabled, Learning Disadvantaged or Learning Differently
http://apd.apduk.org/catesintro.htm (1 of 6 web pages)
and our summary page at
http://www.infosheets.apduk.org/learnstyles1.htm

And the article which was my own Eurika!!! moment back in 2001 when i first read it
I think in pictures, you teach in words: The gifted visual-spatial learner
http://www.giftedchildren.org.nz/national/article4.php
or http://giftedservices.com.au/handouts/index.html
you might like to have a look around this web site as well
http://www.visualspatial.org/index.htm (takes a while to load)

I hope this helps

best wishes

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Laurie, for sure the school should put in some accommodations for test taking. Our son has dysgraphia, which is common among kids with CAPD, so he writes really slow. He has an accommodation to take oral tests when the written letters are not being tested.

In my travels I have read that kids with CAPD are often fine with math until they hit word problems. Processing all those words at once is a struggle, and if they miss one word they can get the whole problem wrong. I haven't read "When the Brain Can't Hear" but I bet she has accommodations for that.

As for the difference between a 504 and IEP, I agree that the IEP is about goals and such, but there is no end date written into the IEP. Instead, the IEP is reviewed every six months, and they evaluate if he has met his goals, and if so, new goals are set. If not, they are suppose to figure out why and make improvements. Children with one learning disability, like dyslexia, usually get a 504. Children with multiple issues that require therapy usually get an IEP. Our son was speech delayed, so he has speech therapy, he also has dysgraphia, so he has OT. He also has social issues, so he gets one 1/2 hour per week of social skills. He also has great difficulty keeping up in class, so he has a 1:1 aide. But he only has all this because he's been in special ed since he was 3, and he was diagnosed PDD-NOS because he was autistic-like.

If our son were diagnosed today, I doubt he'd have half those services, and certainly not without the fight we put up to get them. I know parents who can't even get past the first marker of an assessment, and they don't have money to pay for a private assessment, so their kids get nothing. It's a tough, tough system, especially for kids whose parents don't have the money and/or time to insist on services.

Diana, while there really isn't one therapy that can cure CAPD, I think some of the therapies can help. Research has shown that Fast ForWord definitely helps, and research has also shown learning a musical instrument most definitely exercises the auditory system. Also, some of the listening therapies, like AIT or Enlisten, help some kids. They don't know what really causes CAPD. I'm really wondering if there might be two versions -- genetic and acquired. Our son is one who is showing positive improvement from these types of therapies, so I wonder if he has an acquired type due to many ear infections as a toddler. There is a theory that ear infections cause temporary muted hearing, and multiple in a row can actually cause hearing loss, and then the auditory system is under stimulated. Our son was found to have a conductive hearing loss this past January, and when he did AIT, the loss was rectified. It wasn't until May he was diagnosed with CAPD, but since he began Fast ForWord we've seen improvement. I'm looking into that primary reflex integration therapy. If that one works like the research says, it could be fabulous!

Graeme, so great to see you posting here! You are years ahead of us in the U.S. I have to figure out a way to do what you've done to get CAPD recognized. It really is crummy all us parents have to fight so hard to help our kids!

Take care everybody!
Bonnie


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The way the IEP and 504 are different is from the info I got at his IEP meeting.  That's how it was explained to us.  I know that his CAPD will never be "cured", and every child is different as to how they react to the therapies that are available.  Some kids do well with some therapies, some don't.  I wish we were millionaires so I could do every therapy out there, but we aren't.  We are getting new medical coverage from Blue Cross soon, so I'm going to look into seeing what they cover.  Our school only offers FastForWord, and like I said, we can't do that until summer when he can devote 90 minutes a day for the program.  We can't have him taken out of his classes during the school year that long, he'd just be missing way too much stuff. 

I already know his CAPD is hereditary, he had no loss of hearing when he was younger, no excessive ear infections or head trauma.  His biological father was never diagnosed with CAPD, but after I looked back in time and remembered the difficulties he had, his symptoms were textbook CAPD.  He died when my son was young, and I know for a fact that his parents never had him tested for any learning issues.  I'm not on speaking terms with his family to ask questions about his childhood, but I know what it was like in school for him.  There are clinical tests going on right now trying to find out about the ties between CAPD and genetics.  I wish I could get my son in that, but it's pointless now. 




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Now that I re-read this, I remember that IEP and 504 laws vary by state. While there are federal guidelines, each state has an overlay of laws for implementing those guidelines. So you really should check in your state for the laws on this. Do you guys have SELPA where you are? Ours hasn't been really helpful for us, but in some counties here in California they are incredibly beneficial. They are people who work for the state whose purpose it is to guide and counsel parents through the special needs highway.

Diana, our health insurance has covered some of the listening therapies, but it's because they were administered by a psychologist and therefore fell under psychological services. Some insurances cover OT as well, but many do not cover speech.

I heard another theory about CAPD today that it is caused by inadequate sheathing of the synapses around the corpus collosum. I wish there were some more definitive studies about causes because that might help determine therapies that might help.


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I just spoke a couple of days ago to a speech language pathologist who I need to make copies of the audiologist's testing for.  We get new health coverage starting Jan 1st, we're going from Cigna (they suck) to Blue Cross.  We'll have coverage for more things then than we do now as far as language therapies.  I asked her to send me the billing codes so I can check with Blue Cross as to what would or would not be paid for by them.  She's "in network", the woman I wanted to use that has a huge practice isn't in the network for most insurance companies.  That figures, the most progressive pathologist that offers the most varied treatments wouldn't be in their network.  I am still considering the "metronome" therapy that I'd pay for myself through her, I think it would do him a lot of good.  Basically, I"m just trying to see how we can get these therapies paid for via the insurance company.


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We had Blue Cross and they were very good about covering speech therapy.  Now that we have Cigna...not so much.  But I do think that therapy helped a little.  We also tried FastForWord.  Its very expensive.  Did it hurt?  no.  Did it help?  a little.  Basically, he finished up 5 out of 6 programs, but the final one (Stellar Stories) stopped him cold.  After he plateaued on that, we pushed it until it was obvious that it wasn't going to help him. 

We're really getting hammered in math this year....equations that require bouncing between short and long term memory and word problems.  We have a wonderful teacher this year who really "gets it".  She's been working hard to figure out where the problem starts, and what to do about it.  He understands the subject matter, but often times calculates the wrong answer (he can't master his multiplication/division facts).  He'll probably get a multiplication chart later this year.  Last week, she cut the test down to 10 questions because she thought that he might have auditory fatigue.  Sure enough, he made a 100 on his weekly test.  She might let him take his tests, go to gym class, then come back and review his test before handing it in.  Next year's middle school is interested in giving him oral tests....I think he'd do very well.  He's also using a highlighter to capture only the relevent information in the equation.  I think it helps.

Finding that really great teacher is about 70 percent of the battle.  We've wasted more time sitting in meetings with everyone shrugging their shoulders.  The information posted on this web site, and the info that dolfrog sent from the UK site really needs to get into the school's hands.  They really don't have a clue what CAPD is, and what to do about it.  And sadly, that means that without that one really great teacher to back the parents, its the parents that have to do all of the advocating.  It just kills me to think about all of the kids who are probably struggling, and were either misdiagnosed, or don't have someone as pushy as me advocating for them. 

In one meeting I finally told them that there must not be an expert in the field in our area, or I would have found them by now.  So, I guess that makes me the expert in the room.  So I asked, before we proceeded, if everyone knew what CAPD was, or what questions they had about it.    That moment was the turning point.  Either no one wanted to argue, or no one was able to support their argument.

Where we are now is lining up a tutor.  I think he would benefit from a little pre-teaching from another of the teachers in the school.  Then maybe when the concept is taught in class, he wouldn't be hearing it for the first time, and might catch on a little faster.

Thank you to everyone who commented on my last messages....I learn something new from this board every time I post something.  You guys are awesome!!


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Laurie, there's no doubt that Cigna stinks.  They don't pay for jack!  We're lucky it paid for the CAPD testing with the audiologist, and that was just basic testing.  We have Cigna right now, but in January, my husband's company is going with Anthem Blue Cross.  I already called, and it seems like they pay for TONS more stuff.  I'm going to get our son scheduled in with another speech language pathologist for more extensive tests so we can come up with a better game plan on what exactly he needs to work on.  I had no idea they could test for the "social cues", that wasn't offered to us from the audiologist or from the school system.  This woman seems to know what she's talking about.  But she does this stuff out of her home, so we'll have to see how it goes for scheduling. 

It's great that you have at least one teacher who is trying to work with this.  But sadly, we have to be on guard all the time for the teachers who don't.  Out of my son's 4 major teachers, 2 of them have given me problems.  So I have to push things, ask questions ALL the time, and contact the vice principal when I have a problem that the teacher can't, or won't, address.  Right now I'm suppose to be getting weekly progress reports, and I haven't been getting those, so I'll have to harp on them about that.  I asked that if he misses any homework assignments or gets a C or less on a test, for me to be contact.  Haven't had those done for a while either.  I know they have lots of students, but do I have to gripe at them so often?  I"ll have to go over the 504 again, and make sure those are in the paperwork. 

Keep checking in with us when you can.  I think us sharing our experiences helps each other to understand more, and what we can do for our own situations.



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The biggest mistake I ever made was assuming that since we were now "in the system" at school, they would be on top of things and would magically know what changes to make to help him.  SURPRISE!  Not so....its up to the parents to advocate, advocate, advocate.  And the child should be taught to do so too (although mine usually wound up getting in trouble for contradicting the teacher, but that's another story).  Now when they say "There's a problem", my response is to ask them "what are we going to do about it".  I stopped caring a long time ago whether or not the school thought I was a pest.

You stay tough Diana.  It'll pay off in the long run.

Does anyone have any suggestions for how to strengthen short term memory?  We might have to resume therapy for that, but honestly, I didn't really think it helped much.  So much of it was game playing that we could do at home anyway...and save the $70 per half hour (That insurance doesn't cover because its not a medical necessity).

Thanks - Laurie


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